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Resources
Resources
Works Cited
How to Be Kinky: A Beginner’s Guide to BDSM Morpheous, Green Candy Press, San Francisco CA 2008
A Guide to Sexual Misery Bernhard Ludwig Uberreuter, Wien 2005
Bound to be free Chales Moster and JJ Madeson Continuum NY 2000
On The Safe Edge: A Manual for SM Play Trevor Jacques WholeSM Publishing Toronto 1993
Suggested Reading
Two Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes, Two Knotty Boys, Green Candy Press, San Francisco CA 2006
Two Knotty Boys Back On The Ropes, Two Knotty Boys, Green Candy Press, San Francisco CA 2010
SM 101 Jay Wiseman, Greenery Press San Francisco 1998
Erotic Bondage Handbook, Jay Wiseman Greenery Press San Francisco, 2000
The Master’s Manual: A Handbook of Erotic Dominance, Jack Rinella, Daedalus Publishing Company, 1994
Erotic Surrender: The Sensual Joys of Female Submission, Claudia Varrin, Citadel 2003
Miss Abernathy’s Concise Slave Training Manual Christine Abernathy, Greenery Press 1998
The Bride Wore Black Leather…And He Looked Fabulous!: An Etiquette Guide for the Rest of Us Drew Campbell Greenery Press 2000
Toy makers and artisans
This is by no means a comprehensive list, during my travels I meet many wonderful toy makers and artisans of kinky toys and speaking from personal experience these are some of my most favorites. The great thing is that I am always discovering new everywhere I go. There are lots of online resources run by individuals in your local area. Google is your best friend. Support your local artisans so they can support you!
Facing Page: Who wouldn’t want to know more?
Rope
I exclusively use these rope makers for all of my teaching and personal use:
Handmade Rope handmaderope.com
Serenity Bound serenity-bound.com
Other great rope makers and suppliers
Madam Butterfly butterflyrope.com
Maui Kink mauikink.com
Aja Rope ajarope.com
Shibari Ropes shibariropes.com
Twisted Monk twistedmonk.com
Kinky Ropes kinkyropes.com
Beautiful Bondage UK beautifulbondage.net
Clothing and Toys
Northbound Leather northboundleather.com
Come As You Are comeasyouare.com
Latex Vac Beds kinkengineering.com
Ego Assassin Latex Designs ego-assassin.com
Master Andre masterandre.com
Aslan Leather aslanleather.com
Toy Cases foryournymphomation.com
Steampunk Vibrators littledeathray.com
Fetish jewelry fetjeweller.com
Bellakoi Designs bellakoidesigns.com
Alice Handle alicehandle.com
Torvea torvea.com
Priape priape.com
Hot Wax mild-to-wild.com
Floggers kaosfloggers.com
Rosie's Floggers rosiesfloggers.com
Venus Envy (Halifax and Ottawa) venusenvy.ca
Ponce jewelrybyponceportland.com
Atelier Gothique ateliergothique.com
Axovus axovus.com
Nipple Charms nipplecharms.com
Girdles girdlebound.com
Heartwood Whips heartwoodwhips.com
Mailler Phong Chainmail cgmaille.com
Leather toys katanaworks.com
Corsets fittobetied.ca
Ms. Martha's Corsets corset1.com
Whips whipmaker.ca
masterwhipmaker.com
snakewhips.com
Libido toys libidolondon.com
The Wild Side Cross Dressing wildside.org
The Stockroom stockroom.com
Mr. S. Leather mr-s-leather.com
Extreme Restraints extremerestraints.com
Burlesque supplies bettiesandbombshells.com
Bear T shirts beartshirts.com
Canes canes4pain.com
thekinkshop.com
Leather Masks and canes prysmcreations.com
CheapTRX cheaptrx.com
Master of Toys motbdsm.com
Aluminum handled floggers floggers.com
Restraints luckystarsleather.com
Floggers kinkykustoms.ca
flogger.com
Rings triskeliondesigns.com
Sensuous Bliss etsy.com/shop/sensuousbliss
Chastity Devices lockedinsteel.com
wholesalebdsm.com
Fort Troff forttroff.com
Kinky Medical kinkymedical.com
Venus Eromedia venuseromedia.be
Rubber Fucker Latex rubberfucker.com
Paddles spankinc.ca
Steel toys bluediamondtradingco.com
Violet Wand violetwandstore.com
Healsfang healsfang.com
Fantasies in Leather fantasiesinleather.com
Dr. Clockwork drclockwork.com
Fire play and medical toys mtslenterprises.com
Good Vibrations goodvibes.com
Coco De Mer cocodemerusa.com
Babeland babeland.com
Self Serve selfservetoys.com
Australia: Leather Gear eagleleather.com.au
Ireland: BDSM toys toysforjoys.ie
BDSM B&B and other kinky accomodations
Ontario chateausauble.ca
warmbuns.ca
Seattle mybdsm.com/pages/GypsyArms/seascene.htm
Oregon twistedcedarestate.com
Amsterdam absolutesuite.com
UK essandemm.com
France frenchdungeon.com
Spain sm-urlaub-mallorca.com
Italy casacarisma.it
Jamaica kinkinthecaribbean.com
New Zealand bdsmpassion.com
Australia dragonhousefarm.com.au
Magazines online and paper
Eros eros-zine.com
Domination Directory International ddimag.com
Skin Two skintwo.co.uk
Marquis marquis.de
Secret secretmag.com
Bookstores and kinky cafés
Come As You Are (Toronto) comeasyouare.com
St. Louis shamelessgrounds.com
Outwrite Books (Atlanta) outwritebooks.com
A Different Light (San Francisco) adlbooks.com
Websites of hot online sites and art
Mine lordmorpheous.com modelmayhem.com/812653
Maxine X maxinex.com
Candle Boxxx candleboxxx.com
Chloe Bond chloebond.com
Artemis Hunter artemishunter.com
Kink.com kink.com
Chanta Rose chantasbitches.com
JB Roper jbroper.com
The Beautiful Kind thebeautifulkind.com
Lew Rubens boundndetermined.com
Educational/ Conferences and Advocacy groups
Canada
Northbound (Toronto) northboundlive.com
Torture Garden Toronto (Toronto) torturegardentoronto.com
Toronto TNG torontotng.com
Black and Blue Ball (Winnepeg) blackandblueball.ca
Breathless (Ottawa) breathlessottawa.com
Montreal Fetish Weekend (Montreal) fetishweekend.com
Northern Exposure (Sudbury) snobears.ca
EHBC (Southern Ontario) ehbc.ca
Vancouver Dungeon (with car pooling!) vancouverdungeon.com
Lupercalia (Edmonton) lupercalia-edmonton.com
Libido (Vancouver) libidoevents.com
519 LGBT community centre (Toronto) the519.org
U.S.
National Coalition of Sexual Freedom (San Francisco) ncsfreedom.org
LA KinkBall Fetish Weekend (LA, CA) lakinkball.com
Southplains Leather Fest (Dallas) southplainsleatherfest.com
Thunder in the Mountains (Colorado) thunderinthemountains.com
Pony Play(Russell Springs) dulca-scenes.org
The Floating World (New Jersey) floatingworld.dreamhosters.com
TES (NYC)
tes.org
Miss Rubber World (NYC) nyrubberball.com
IML (Chicago) imrl.com
Beyond Leather (Fort Lauderdale) beyondleather.net
Black Rose (Maryland) br.org
N.O.B.L.E. (New Orleans) lanoble.org
Shibaricon (Chicago) shibaricon.com
Knot Guilty (Atlanta) knotguilty.org
DomCon (Atlanta) domconatlanta.com
Atlanta Bound (Atlanta) atlantabound.com
St.Louis STL3.com
Lewbaricon (travelling) lewbaricon.com
C.L.A.W. (Cleveland) clawinfo.org
Mid Atlantic Leather (Washington) leatherweekend.com
Colonial Kink (Williamsburg): colonialkink.com
Northern Exposure (Anchorage) ne2010.net
Europe and UK:
Boudoir Bizarre (Zaandam, Netherlands) boudoir-bizarre.nl
Mr. Rubber Italy (Rome, Italy) lcroma.com
Evolution Fetish (Stoke on Trent, UK) atlantisevolution.co.uk/evolution_fetish.html
Carribean
Paradise Bound (Dominican Republic) kinkevents.com/cff/pervypeople.html
Kink in the Carribean (Negril, Jamaica) kinkinthecaribbean.com/kinkx/
Kinky Furniture makers
Porte Rouge porterouge.net/pr/Home
Dating and Online BDSM sites:
Fetlife fetlife.com
Bondage bondage.com
Museums and Archives
Amsterdam Sex Museum: sexmuseumamsterdam.nl
NYC Sex Museum: museumofsex.com
Leather Archives and Museum (Chicago) leatherarchives.org
Sex worker and other resources
Toronto
Maggies maggiestoronto.ca
Sex Professionals of Canada spoc.ca/index.html
A.C.T. actoronto.org
Montreal
Stella chezstella.org
San Francisco
Health Resources bayswan.org
New York
Spread Magazine spreadmagazine.org
Sex Workers Project sexworkersproject.org/
Listings for therapists/counselors in Ontario:
Daniel Zimmerman, M.S.W., 7 – 348 Lacasse Ave., Ottawa, Ontario, K1L 7A9, 613-741-0606, Dsottawa@sympatico.ca
Fadi Abou-Rihan, Ph.D., 202 – 2 College Street, Toronto, 416-964-6357, http://psychotherapytoronto.info/sexuality.html
Nick Mulé, Ph.D., RSW, Suite 820, 77 Maitland Place, Toronto, Ontario, Canada M4Y 2V6, Phone: 416-926-9135. Individuals, couples, families. Various BDSM issues.
Peggy J. Kleinplatz, Ph.D., C. Psych., C, 161 Frank St., Ottawa, Ontario, K2P 0X4, Canada, 613-563-0846, email: kleinpla@uottawa.ca. Sex therapy with individuals, couples and groups.
Terri Lyn Lemon, ABA Therapist, Michigan and Southern Ontario, based in Windsor, terrilynlemon@comcast.net Metro Detroit, Flint, Lansing, Windsor areas.
The Models
Models
Elle, Kittehlicious, Ava Destruction, Doll, Brittany, Babygap, Greg, SLam, Russian Bear, Little Rose, Annie, Bella Noir, Jon Henderson, WyldAura, Fire Domination, The Red Rocket, Tragedy Ann, Nadia Versace, Aeva, Mandy the Halfcast Moon, Amu, Tanya Rigley, Dylan Ryan, Lyarah, Rain Daniels and Vaeda.
And those with weblinks
Alec & Chloe Bond chloebond.com
Archean modelmayhem.com/1257597
Kerry Maguire modelmayhem.com/596363
Nyssa Nevers nyssasneverland.com
Katy Cee modelmayhem.com/687335
Tina Timebalm modelmayhem.com/285662
Bri Playter modelmayhem.com/629431
Wenona modelmayhem.com/25021
Nicotine modelnicotine.com
Kyla Blair modelmayhem.com/1816408
Melissa Dale-Hicks modelmayhem.com/2008952
Kat Reznor modelmayhem.com/1300712
Katrina Razor modelmayhem.com/2105178
Siren Thorn sirenthorn.com
Allyss modelmayhem.com/1767040
Deanna Deadly deannadeadly.com
Andriana Santos andrianasantos.com
Amazon Syren modelmayhem.com/1005204
Droidsy modelmayhem.com/230678
Laura Unbound lauraunbound.com
PXE modelmayhem.com/505070
Goddess Shea goddessshea.com/
Orabella modelmayhem.com/627686
Melissa Masters modelmayhem.com/856616
Mad Scientist kinkengineering.com
Sybil Hawthorne sybilhawthorne.com
Ego Assassin ego-assassin.com
Kaze modelmayhem.com/1496988
Jezabel Knight jezabelknight.com
Sandy Gabriel modelmayhem.com/572038
Studios and Media Support
Video production bluemyst.com
Geoff George Photography geoffgeorge.com
The Oh Team theohteam.com
FAT CAT Photography modelmayhem.com/902307
Creative Image Studios creativeimagestudios.com
SubSpace Studio subspacestudio.com
Sex Matters cp24.com/sexmatters
Fat Cat Studio modelmayhem.com/902307
Special Thanks to
Once again my editor, Kevin, who has helped polish my words again and who I’m surprised still puts up with nonsense. The Cundari Agency for pimping me out. All of the models that grace these pages for giving of their time selflessly and supporting this project during its development. You are all consummate professionals and I couldn’t have done it without you. Elle and Effi for putting up with my shenanigans over the years. Kittehlicious for her midnight adventures across the world. Speedy Rope Guy for his medical play expertise, Alec and Chloe Bond for my Florida adventures. Lew Rubens for the inspiration and Peter Claver for joining in. Dr. Phil and his evening rigging in Paris, George and Anna and the whole gang at Northbound Leather. Maxine X and Scott for their undying support over the years. Archean for being scared of me from time to time and Mad Scientist for letting her. Gregg for being a demo bunny for people to torture over the years. Joey and Scott for helping with making my work look awesome online. Roy the lube boy and Kharma for both their support. Beret, Geoff and Garfield for the great discussions and encouragement of my photography. Dr. Carol Pukall at Queen’s University. Joe for being my anchor in the US. Dart and his Domain, Cub Dan for being such a great bear, The Knoxville scene for being so incredibly welcoming, Come As You Are for encouraging my teaching career when I was starting out. Diana and the Shibaricon crew, Michael my Viennese hideaway, Stella Perversa and Dommy Darko, Byrd, Craiger, Sir Alex Dark and Johnny-Boy for being great bros. EMJ and the FetLife team. Tracy and Jeff Adams for being my token soulless Gingers. Don Sir for being such a great guy whom I never get to see enough of, Carrie Grey of Aslan Leather for her unmatched quality in leather toys, FetishCon in Tampa for being the craziest 4 days of my year as well as Cecil and Penguin at The Woodshed, FL. Most of all to you and everyone around the world who has ever come to my classes, been to the Morpheous Bondage Extravaganza during Nuit Blanche or complimented my work by picking up this book. Lastly, my family who will never read this book and don’t understand my lifestyle but I love them regardless.
About the Author
Morpheous (Hons B.A., B.Ed) is a sex educator/author, photographer and magazine/kinkyTV/radio consultant based in Toronto, Canada. He is the author of two books: How to Be Kinky: A Beginner’s Guide to BDSM (2008, Green Candy Press, San Francisco) and this one, How to Be Kinkier: More Adventures in Adult Playtime (2012, Green Candy Press, San Francisco). His work is archived at the Sexual Representation Collection at the Bonham Centre for Sexual Diversity Studies at the University of Toronto, the Leather Archives of Chicago and the National Archives of Canada. He travels and presents across the Americas and Europe doing outreach to both academic and kink aware safer sex organizations. He is also the host the world’s largest single night public erotic Japanese rope bondage event during Nuit Blanche in Toronto, Canada.
Morpheous online: lordmorpheous.com
Email: LM@lordmorpheous.com
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